Indian Men - An epitome of sacrifices PDF Print E-mail
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66 women are attacked with acid in 9 years from 1999 to 2008 and there is suddenly a huge hue and cry to get a law against acid attacks. Well this act is by no means non-condemnable as violence is violence and has no locus standi in any civilized human society. But on one side where there is a lot of euphoria being generated for women’s issues, no one seems to be bothered at all about men. Whether they exist or not, or are they facing any issues or not? Time has come to have a look at some glaring lacunae in the system which has led to:

  1. Close to 1,20,000 mothers and sisters of men have been arrested under charges of Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code, without any verification / trial, just on a mere complaint, as these women were blood relatives of a MAN. Even the barbarous British Government took 10 years to arrest 5000 women (1937 – 47) but the Indian Government has arrested close to 24 times more women in just four years (2004-2007). The maximum women arrested by the British Government is 17000 in 1930 for Dandi, but the Indian Government under the protection of National Commission for Women(NCW) arrested 1,20,000 women in 4 years.
  2. As per National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), in the year 2005, more than 22,64,000 crimes have been registered against men (which is 92.8% of total registered crimes), while crime against women is 1,55,000 approximately (which is 6.38% of total registered crimes) and yet the media never found it worth enough to create awareness about this. A really pathetic and callous approach. Original source here. It’s just a matter of question as to whose life is in more danger in India, Men or Women? In fact as per the murder rates of USA and India, Indian women are 2 times safer than women in USA despite the presence of so called Dowry Deaths in India.
  3. As per suicide statistics provided by National Crime Records Bureau, for the years 2005 and 2006, close to 52,483 and 55,452 married men, respectively, have committed suicide as opposed to 28,188 and 29,869 married women. Yet whenever a married woman dies due to any reason, be it accident, illness or commits suicide due to any reason unknown, it is converted into dowry death and yet such large scale suicides by men are not even noticed let alone imparting justice to them. Can the Govt. and the media answer as to why such apathy meted out to men?
  4. Why is not even a single rupee spent for men’s welfare when men pay 82% of the total taxes in India? Even animals have welfare ministry, but men do not have. Has anyone thought about this? This despite the fact that everyday 192 men end their lives as compared to 112 women.

Some more issues faced by men but never published:-

  1. Literacy: Literacy rate amongst males is 73.4% and that amongst females is 47.8% in 2004; but still more than 60% of men earn less than 1 USD per day.
  2. Lifestyle Gap: Women's average annual earned income was US$1,471 in 2002, almost three times less than the average for men of US$4,723, but still shopping malls are dominated by women as more than 75% buying capacity.
  3. Work - Life Balance: Indian Men toil like donkeys and the females spend off the splurge and as a result men are dying 1.7 times faster than women as per over all statistics.

Domestic Violence:

More than 98% of Indian husbands face Domestic violence at least once from their wife on an average 3 Years of Marriage in terms of economical abuse, mental harassment, relationship cheating.

More than 22,000 Indian Men have ended their life in reverse dowry Harassment by their wives against 6800 wives who ended their life due to dowry harassment by their husbands.

In all the 6800 cases the Indian husbands had been sent behind bars without any investigation and more than 68% found to be innocent, where as in the 22,000 cases only 6 cases had been registered and not a single woman has been questioned as to why their Husbands ended their life, let alone any punishment.

Forced Sex and crimes against men:

More than two-thirds of married Men in India between the ages of 15 and 49 are victims of forced sex by their girlfriendsand in more than 78% cases the men had been booked under Rape cases, as they refused to marry their girlfriends.

Crime against men is increasing with a Growth rate of 42% in last 5 years, whereas the media and government have never even bothered to disclose the same in front of Public.

Sexual harassment and refusal of sex has happened with more than 82% Indian men as their wives refused for physical union at least once in 6 months and 42% have faced once in 3 months.

Progress made so far:

Six decades have passed since independence and yet not a single rupee has been spent for men welfare nor has a single law been enacted to protect men. Though the Government has earned 82% tax from men it has been of less use to men. Lets look at some more statistics:

  • More than 98% of armed forces are formed of men, with less than 2% women.
  • Less than 28% men serve in the media industry.
  • Prostitution industry is dominated by 99.98% women and only 0.02% men.
  • Reception, office telecom, school, bank, etc. all jobs having ease of work and less burden are occupied by 30% men and 70% women.
  • More than 96% of NGOs are getting fund from the Government in the name of Women and Child Welfare while for men less than 4% of NGOs receive funds.
  • One third of seats in village councils are now reserved for women but still educated women are not ready to take the responsibility.
  • High Achievers like Atal Behari Vajpayee ji and Dr. Abdul Kalam never married and done wonders in their life.

Role of Congress Government:

More than 85% of the time this country has been ruled by the Congress Government and during that regime:

  1. Indian husbands have been openly killed by their wives and their paramours and all those murderers are roaming freely in the society, yet the Government has not bothered to make any law to protect these husbands.
  2. Killing of unborn child or abortion has become a birth right for Indian women by the Medical Termination of Pregnancy Act, 1971.
  3. Weapons of Legal Terrorism like Section 498A IPC, Domestic Violence Act 2005, 125 CrPC (Maintenance), have been let loose to terrorize Indian men as in these cases, the verbal statement of the wife is considered as evidence whereas definitive documentary evidence by husbands like video recording, voice recording, bank statements are routinely ignored in investigation.
  4. Adultery is a civil offense for Indian women whereas criminal offense for Indian Men.
  5. And more and more anti-male laws are in line to create disarray and chaos in workplace via the Workplace Harassment Bill and the new Rape Law.

The questions that irk the rationale are:

  1. Is not the Congress Government staunchly anti-male?
  2. Is not the Congress Government promoting the creation of Fatherless Society in India?
  3. Is not the Congress Government out to kill the institution of marriage in India?

I am hoping the government has a good justification for not spending a single rupee for men welfare in the last six decades and as a result of which crime is increasing day by day in the society. And lastly, what justification does the Government have to have given wholesale free license to women in India to do all sorts of crime and go scot free and catch some man and punish him?

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Comments (22)
  • ashok  - plaese save me
    dear friends, iam really happy to join you . please help me . my wife and her parents are
    threateaning me to use 498/a. i am not demanding any money from them . they saying me to pay them.
    please help me.
  • Sarvanan  - SAVE ANAND CAMPAIGN
    IT IS A MATTER OF SHAME WE THE MEN ARE NOT UNITED THE WAY WOMEN ARE. JUST LOOK AT THE RECENT
    INCIDENT IN BANGALORE GIRL NAME PRIYANKA CREATED SO MUCH FUSS ALONG WITH WOMEN a**OCIATION AND
    GRABBED ALL THE MEDIA ATTENTION FORCED UNCONSTITUTIONALLY POLICE ALSO TO ARREST ANAND.

    MY QUESTION IS WHAT IS THE CRIME ANAND HAS COMMITTED ??? HE JUST TRIED TO MARRY ON FRIDAY AND ALL
    THIS NONSENSE AND HE HAS BEEN ARRESTED.

    NOBODY IS ASKING THIS SUCKER GIRL WHY DID SHE FORCE ANAND TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM ??

    FIRST OF ALL MY QUESTION IS WHY EVERYONE PUBLIC, MEDIA, PRESS, a**OCIATION JUST LISTENING TO ONE
    SIDE OF STORY AND ARRESTING ANAND?? WHY IS NO ONE LISTINING TO ANAND TO UNDERSTAND WHAT IS THE TRUE
    STORY, MAY BE IF YOU LISTEN TO ANAND, HE MAY SAY:
    1. I DO NOT EVEN KNOW THIS GIRL??
    2. EVEN IF I KNEW I NEVER HAD SEX WITH HER??
    3. SHE DRUGGED ME AND FORCED ME TO HAVE SEX?
    4. NOW SHE IS BLACK MAILING ME?
    5. EVEN a**UMING ALL ABOVE IS NOT TRUE THE FACT IS THEY HAD CONSENSUAL SEX, SO HOW ON EARTH THIS CAN
    BE TREATED AS RAPE AND ANAND PUT BEHIND THE BARS ??
    6. HE CAN EVEN SAY: WE HAD ONE NIGHT STAND AND WE HAD AGREED THAT WE WILL PART AS FRIENDS AND MARRY
    DIFFERENTLY??
    7. DEFENSE CAN BE 100/1000 BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS NO ONE IS EVEN ALLOWING ANAND TO TALK??

    NOW BIG QUESTION IS WHERE IS THE MEDIA?? WHERE IS THE MENS a**OCIATION WHY ARE THEY PROTESTING
    INFRONT OF THE POLICE STATION SEEKING IMMEMDIATE RELEASE OF ANAND??

    DON'T WE MEN HAVE ENOUGH SHAME THAT WE CAN'T EVEN FOLLOW WOMEN AND JUST REPEAT WHAT THEY ARE DOING,
    ARE WE SO SHAMLESS??

    MEN ACT FAST , BEFORE IT IS TOOOO LATE.

    I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ANAND, NEVER SEEN HIM BUT I AM JUST FOLLOWING THE NEWS.
  • arunsrinivaas
    dear god forgotten hara**ed brothers by cunning wifes,
    we all should unite along with save indian family organization to motivate government to amend
    divorce law for giving opportunities to husbands to move one sided divorce application against such
    cunning cruel wifes to get divorce on basis of false allegations by wife and mental torture
    suffocating husbands.
    what is the use in continuing life with such cunning wife obeying government saying that marriage is
    holy and it should not be broken.
  • srinivas  - re: very good details
    ur right my friend. thhis site is really god gifted through the men behind the built up of this
    site. i really congratulate them and really thank them for this wonderful job they are doing in the
    country like india where no one cares married men. to gether we can help the people and the cause
    this website.



    thanks once again







    kumar wrote:
    first time in my life i saw a website name like this who cares for a married men,



    at last, god has given this to the indian men,



    thanks to all those who are behind this website or organisation



    i am also a victim of this dowry hara**ment case law,



    i am from bangalore



    together we must do something so that all these house-wife's and father-in-law and mother-in-law of
    the wife side should be put in the law



    i am surprise for any reason wife is putting a case



    police should verify after the dowry hara**ment case been registered once it is prooved as wrong
    they must put wife and her father mother, wife sisters if any, in to jail and teach them a lesson



    may the god bless all the team members of this movement, let it become very big so that every woman
    and there family should worry about this law



    at any cost we must ban this law
  • DR.JASBIR ARYA  - appreciate your work
    dear sir,

    We are much impress with your work or mission.we are also doing work on national level. for more
    deatils you have to watch our website. www.crimefreeindia.com & www.cfibmediaforce.com



    we are giving you a proposal to work together for the society. if you are intrested to work jointly
    with us, pls reply soon.



    thanks
  • Chinni  - Is this right?????
    Can anyone help me.



    I am a graduate working in MNC.I and my girl friend were in love with one

    another since six years. We revealed about our love to my dad at the time of studies and he just

    aksed us to settle first.

    Now both of us were settled and then we reveled this to her parents. They

    didnt accept. I even tried sending my dad and uncle to their house. They ill treated him and my

    uncle.

    Finally they black mailed my girl friend by saying that they will die if she comes for

    me.

    Now she says she left every thing to GOD and she doesnt want her parents to suffer.

    Is this

    what a result for my true love.

    Is there any way to get her ....

    Please guide me
  • Chinni  - very good details
    Can anyone help me.



    I am a graduate working in MNC.I and my girl friend were in love with one another since six years.
    We revealed about our love to my dad at the time of studies and he just aksed us to settle first.

    Now both of us were settled and then we reveled this to her parents. They didnt accept. I even tried
    sending my dad and uncle to their house. They ill treated him and my uncle.

    Finally they black mailed my girl friend by saying that they will die if she comes for me.

    Now she says she left every thing to GOD and she doesnt want her parents to suffer.

    Is this what a result for my true love.

    Is there any way to get her ....

    Please guide me
  • Virag  - Learn the lesson
    Your dad and uncle were insulted by the girl's family and still you want to go for such a girl. If
    their attitude is like this now, how will it be after marriage? Don't you have any self-esteem? If
    your family would have done such a behavior with her parents/relatives, she would have by now put a
    case against your entire family and you would have been suffering. A family that does not recognize
    human values is not worth a**ociating with. Why are you putting your dad in the awkward situation?

    Move on in life and find some girl whose family has respect for other's family.
  • kumar  - very good details
    first time in my life i saw a website name like this who cares for a married men,



    at last, god has given this to the indian men,



    thanks to all those who are behind this website or organisation



    i am also a victim of this dowry hara**ment case law,



    i am from bangalore



    together we must do something so that all these house-wife's and father-in-law and mother-in-law of
    the wife side should be put in the law



    i am surprise for any reason wife is putting a case



    police should verify after the dowry hara**ment case been registered once it is prooved as wrong
    they must put wife and her father mother, wife sisters if any, in to jail and teach them a lesson



    may the god bless all the team members of this movement, let it become very big so that every woman
    and there family should worry about this law



    at any cost we must ban this law
  • waisenkind  - Inequality
    In a week you read atleast ones about a woman cutting off her husband's penis.. And the irony is its
    generally said in a comic way as if its something one should laugh about..

    And people actually read aloud and laugh at such articles and in most of the cases its men
    themselves who laugh.

    Women dont discriminate men. its men themsevles who discriminate themselves.

    While women have a unity that they belong to the fairer sex, its sad that all men ar eout to bring
    each other down.

    I guess its the law of the nature. The most aggressive male is the alpha male.
  • anonymous  - 498a
    when the law states that the person/persons giving dowry are also to be punished then when a lady
    files a case then and there the persons who are named as the ones who have given the dowry should
    also be arrested.
  • unknown  - 498a
    I agree with the anonymous (sub 498a ). . when the person filing the complaint under 498a accepts
    that he/she/they have given dowry then why not they be booked under the act?
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